That’s right.. Every time Im looking at this sign.. my mind say something else. Not superman as for ‘The Superman..’ but power to those single ladies/girls out there! It is not easy being single and we chose to be single cuz it’s easy. Geddit?

Being independent is one thing, able to self indulgence yourself is another thing! You only can discover how brave, independent and strong you are when you are really really single. Single doesn’t mean you are not attractive so no body interested in you. I was eating alone at some cafes in section 9 Shah Alam, and there is this guy, who came later than me, so close wanna pay for my not –  so –  delicious –  grilled stuffed chicken and what – a – lousy ice lychee drinks. But I ran to the counter, as fast as I could just to save my mobile number from fall into some stranger’s hand. Yes, being single in millennium is a CHOICE.

You can see the clarity of yourself when you are single, you can hear yourself precisely. You able to attain, fulfill and satisfy your needs without hurting, considering what others think. Lonely? yes, but it only hit you sometimes, not ALL the time. So what? you still got your family and friends or worst case, your pet.

There is nothing much people can say about you when you are single and independent. People can’t connect you to other person for your success like “she got her rich husband.. that’s why.. she got rich auntie who keep giving her expensive stuff, that’s why… and the lists go on”

Ask those ladies who just got into single phase, community, club or whatever you may call it, they swear it is the biggest, heavenly break they are into and they wish to keep it that way for a long time. I was once think that I won’t survive without a man’s back up.. and I already proved to myself I was all wrong. I saved a lot of money, time and heartbreaks in the process, and Im so used to this and now Im having a problem to share my space..again. I am so reluctant to let go what I am having now. Yes, being single can be addictive.

Not to mention respect and favor you get from some men who really understand and see through it, this is what they think of you;

I love her cause she got her own
She don’t need mine, so she leave mine alone
There ain’t nothing that’s more sexy
Than a girl that want but don’t need me
Young independent, yea she work hard
But you can tell from the way that she walk
She don’t slow down cause she ain’t got time
To be complaining, shawty gon shine
She don’t expect nothing from no guy
She plays agressive, but she still shy
But you never know her softer side
By lookin in her eyes
Knowin she can do for herself
Makes me wanna give her my wealth
All the while payin the bills on time
She don’t look at me like Captain Save Em
Gold Diggin, no she don’t do that
Now she lookin me like inspiration
She wanna be complimentin my swag
And everything she got, she work for it, good life made for it
She take pride in sayin that she paid for it

She got her own by Neyo feat Jamie Foxx / Fabolous

So, to those single ladies, enjoy your moment while you are still single, don’s panic and rush into someone and hoping that he can ‘save’ you. In fact, men need to be saved by us mentally and sexually. So they created the myth of they can save us from loneliness, sadness and emptiness. Emptiness my ass. That’s a total bullshit created by losers out there, seriously. They only want their sex supply and clean up their place. Go ask any men…can they survive without a pussy. Even gays can’t survive without their partner’s ass hole.

Im super fly~!




  1. BidadariPatahSayap

    March 27, 2010 at 1:08 am

    i love your post..being single is hott!!
    u r true men only think abt sex and someone to clean their place and feed them..moron!

  2. Lissa

    March 27, 2010 at 7:42 am

    LOL. Awesome entry. And I agree!

  3. Independent Queen

    March 27, 2010 at 7:50 am

    @BidadariPatahSayap : Im glad u are with me. Only positive and clever girl see being single is a bless. Not a cursed.
    @Lissa : You go girl~!

  4. makcik rokiah

    March 31, 2010 at 6:39 am

    absolutely true lar babe 😀

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