Wake up Call : Racism.
I noticed Malaysians are the most racist. I was one of them BEFORE. I remember when my husband told me he chatted with someone at the mall and told me about it when he got home. I was so quick asking him “is he Chinese, Indian or Malay?” He looked at me astonished, and replied “why does it matter? Why you always asked me Chinese, Malay or Indian? I thought you guys are Malaysian? Man, you sounds very racist, you know?
There, I got my wake up call.